To everyone celebrating their Coming-of-Age Ceremony in 2025—if you’re someone who thinks, “I don’t want to wear the same suit as everyone else,” this guide is for you. Here, we’ll show you how to break free from conventional style rules and express your individuality through refined, fashion-forward dressing.

This article covers everything you need for your special day: five recommended designer setup brands, five carefully selected coats that define first impressions, five boots that make a statement from the ground up, and a Q&A section to ease any outfit-related concerns.

But first, let me share a personal story from my own experience.

Introduction: Embracing What You Love

[Personal Experience] “I was once someone who struggled with what to wear for my Coming-of-Age Ceremony.”

When I was preparing for my own Coming-of-Age Ceremony, I remember feeling genuinely unsure about what to wear. Looking back, though, that period of uncertainty — the process of exploring options and imagining how I wanted to look — was actually one of the most enjoyable experiences.

I talked to stylish friends and older peers who had already attended their ceremonies, and instead of a traditional suit, I found myself drawn to designer brand setups. I spent hours browsing online stores and visiting boutiques in person, searching for something that truly reflected my style.

I wasn’t just particular about the individual clothing items — I focused on the overall styling. I studied the collection looks from my favorite designer brands, carefully analyzing runway outfits and editorial stylings, asking myself: “How can I add my own touch to this?” and “How can I express this brand’s worldview in my own way?”

In the end, I chose a black double-breasted setup with power shoulders — a design that emphasized structure and presence.

The reason for this choice was simple: I wanted something I could wear not only on the day of the ceremony but also in my everyday life afterward. I searched for a versatile piece — a jacket and trousers that could each be worn separately and seamlessly matched with the rest of my wardrobe.

On the day of the ceremony, I paired the setup with a scarf and accessories, creating a look that was both dressy and elegant in my own way. Friends complimented me, saying, “That outfit suits you perfectly,” but what made me happiest was that no one else was dressed quite like me.

Being able to attend the ceremony in something I truly believed looked cool — without worrying about what others thought — remains one of my proudest memories.

While the classic suit style is always an option, there are far more possibilities for how you can dress for your Coming-of-Age Ceremony.

In this article, I’ll introduce concrete outfit ideas that help express your individuality and style. By the end, I promise you’ll feel confident and inspired to say, “It’s okay to attend the ceremony in a style that feels true to me.”

Three Reasons Why You Should Choose an Outfit That Reflects Who You Are at Your Coming-of-Age Ceremony

There are clear reasons why it’s worth putting thought into what you wear for your Coming-of-Age Ceremony. Because ultimately, the outfit you choose carries a meaning that’s deeply personal — one that belongs to no one else but you.

Reason 1: To capture a once-in-a-lifetime memory in your most authentic form

The photos from your Coming-of-Age Ceremony will remain as cherished memories—five, ten years, or even decades later.

When you look back at them, will you think, “I played it safe and just blended in,” or will you proudly say, “That outfit still feels so me, even now”?

The difference is profound. Choosing an outfit that you genuinely love—not one dictated by trends or social expectations—is a meaningful gift to your future self.

Reason 2: To show who you are today to friends you haven’t seen in a while

The Coming-of-Age Ceremony is also a reunion — a rare chance to reconnect with old friends from your hometown.

Your outfit speaks louder than words, conveying what you’re into and how you’ve grown since you last met. The outfit you carefully choose might spark conversations like, “That’s so you!” or “You’ve gotten really stylish!” — opening the door to genuine connections and memorable moments.

Reason 3: To begin this new chapter in a way that feels true to yourself

Above all, the Coming-of-Age Ceremony is a celebration of you — marking your own transition into adulthood.

Wearing something chosen not out of concern for others’ opinions, but because you genuinely feel, “This is what I want to wear. This is who I am right now,” brings an unmatched sense of confidence and excitement. That feeling will make your special day all the more meaningful and unforgettable.

Recommended Coming-of-Age Ceremony Outfits by Style

There’s no single rule for how you should dress for your Coming-of-Age Ceremony. The key to making it truly memorable is not being confined by the word “suit”, but choosing something that you genuinely want to wear — something that excites you and feels right for who you are.

Here, we introduce five designer brands whose setups go beyond the conventional suit, each offering a unique philosophy and distinct worldview.

1. sulvam：An Art Piece Born from Improvisation

At the heart of sulvam, designed by Teppei Fujita, lies a philosophy inspired by jazz improvisation — the idea that “clothing is only complete when worn.”

This setup perfectly embodies that concept. At first glance, it appears to be an elegant black wool gabardine suit — a dense, lustrous, and durable fabric — but look closer and you’ll notice sulvam’s signature asymmetric cutting and layered design that deliberately reveals different materials from the pocket areas.

This calculated “unfinishedness” speaks volumes about individuality — especially in an environment like the Coming-of-Age Ceremony, where outfits often blend together. Neither overly decorative nor too simple, it captures sulvam’s unique balance of precision and playfulness, making it an ideal choice for expressing your own creative sensibility.

2. IRENISA：Refined Playfulness — The Choice of a Mature Individual

The essence of IRENISA lies in its balance between refined materials and a spirit of playful freedom. The designers themselves describe their creations as “luxury playwear for adults.”

This charcoal grey shawl-collar jacket perfectly embodies that philosophy. At first glance, it carries a timeless, gentlemanly presence — yet subtle cuts along the collar line and a relaxed arm shape soften the rigidity, creating an effortless sophistication. Its quiet confidence is supported by the exceptional quality of fine Merino Super 120’s wool, woven in Bishu, Japan — one of the country’s most renowned wool-producing regions.

Light and lustrous enough to be used for shirts, wrinkle-resistant, and even hand-washable, it offers both beauty and practicality. The lightly padded shoulders give it an airy comfort, making it the ideal choice for those who wish to look elegant at their Coming-of-Age Ceremony without seeming like they tried too hard.

3. Yohji Yamamoto POUR HOMME: “The Philosophy of Black” and “A Spirit of Rebellion”

“Yohji Yamamoto” is not merely a fashion brand — it is a philosophy. The color “black,” which designer Yohji Yamamoto has continuously pursued, carries a strong rebellious spirit: the refusal to conform to trends and the conviction to dress according to one’s own values.

The style that most strongly embodies this philosophy pairs the brand’s symbolic “wool gabardine” with its signature “hakama pants.” By combining a simple tailored jacket with hakama pants featuring a bold silhouette, the look achieves originality and depth. The flowing lines and dignified volume of the hakama pants express the quiet strength characteristic of Yohji Yamamoto.

Choosing this style for a coming-of-age ceremony — an event often associated with “following tradition” and “looking proper” — becomes, in itself, a declaration. It expresses the resolve to walk one’s own path in life without being bound by conventional expectations.

4. DEVOA: “Ultimate Comfort Derived from Human Ergonomics”

The clothing of “DEVOA” is designed based on designer Nishida’s knowledge in medicine and human ergonomics, with the premise that “the human body is constantly in motion.”

This philosophy is condensed into this structured tailored jacket and slim pants. At first glance, the silhouette appears sharply fitted, however, thanks to a unique pattern-making approach (the construction of the pattern) that does not inhibit the movement of the shoulder blades, there is almost no stress when raising or bending the arms.

Additionally, the jacket uses the “Ogami button” (a fastening method where the left and right buttons meet at the center), which is considered to be among the most formal button styles for tailored jackets. Combined with the beautiful drape (natural fabric fall) of the 100% wool gabardine produced in Bishu, one of Japan’s renowned wool-making regions, the garment conveys a refined and sophisticated impression.

On the day of the coming-of-age ceremony, you will likely spend long hours in unfamiliar formal clothing. DEVOA, which achieves both a “formal appearance” and “comfort that lasts all day,” supports you in your very best condition for this important milestone.

5. JULIUS: “Powerful Black Wrapped in a Decadent Mood”

“JULIUS” is a brand rooted in black, strongly reflecting a decadent, urban atmosphere and industrial elements. This style presents a bold alternative that overturns the conventional image of “traditional formal attire” for a coming-of-age ceremony.

This dark and powerful worldview is clearly expressed in this setup styling. The single-button jacket with a sharp neckline is paired with wide trousers where the drape created by a single tuck (a fold created by pinching the fabric once) becomes the focal point. The three-dimensional silhouette sways with movement, creating shifting shadows.

The fabric is a wool and viscose (a type of rayon) crepe, and the fine grain (textured unevenness) produces a dry, cool hand-feel. By pairing it with a draped knit top as the inner layer, the look is elevated to a highly fashionable form without requiring a shirt or necktie.

The five styles introduced here are simply examples of what we suggest.
Feel free to combine shirts, knits, and accessories with the setup according to what you feel is truly “right” for you.

And most importantly, these setups are not meant to be worn for just one day—your Coming-of-Age Ceremony. Each jacket and each pair of trousers will continue to serve as key pieces in your daily wardrobe for years to come.

Five Carefully Selected Coats That Define the First Impression

Once you’ve chosen your main setup, the next key piece is the coat. Since the Coming-of-Age Ceremony takes place in winter, the first moment you reunite with friends outside the venue—the coat you’re wearing over the jacket will determine your first impression.

You don’t necessarily *have* to wear a coat, but having one allows you to express stronger individuality. Here, we’ve selected five coats that enhance the worldview of the setups introduced earlier—each suitable for such an important occasion.

1. sulvam / Long Broken Coat (Black Black) / WW-C01-400

A piece that becomes your “battle dress,” serving you from the Coming-of-Age Ceremony to formal occasions

This is ideal for those who want a coat that will carry them beyond the ceremony into future formal events and gatherings. Because it is based on a classic long coat, it works elegantly in formal settings.

At the same time, the brand’s signature raw-cut hem and boldly exposed asymmetrical lining design at the bottom create a quiet but distinct individuality. The material is 100% high-quality wool, offering a smooth weight and natural drape, yet it is also lightweight, so even carrying it indoors does not become a burden.

This coat, which can lean both toward mode and classic styling, will continue to serve as a strong accent piece in your wardrobe for years to come.

2. IRENISA / Double-Breasted Chester Coat (Charcoal Gray) / IH-25FW-C034-ND8

Make the coat the main statement — a minimal piece that conveys a refined and mature impression

This is recommended for those who want the coat to take the lead at their Coming-of-Age Ceremony and project a sophisticated, grown-up presence. The peak lapels (sharp, upward-pointing lapel tips) and double-breasted construction create enough presence that the outfit stands complete with the coat alone.

The highlight is the high-quality wool gabardine fabric, thin enough to be used even for shirts. With careful tailoring such as shoulder pads and collar underside felt (additional fabric for structure), it achieves an astonishingly lightweight feel while maintaining its sharp silhouette.

The body is designed with a slightly relaxed volume so it can be comfortably worn over a jacket, making it a highly versatile piece for daily use as well.

3. Yohji Yamamoto POUR HOMME / Terrocoat (Black) / HM-C02-100

A coat that radiates overwhelming presence and individuality just by being thrown on

If you want to instantly project overwhelming presence and individuality simply by wearing a coat, this is the answer. It stands out as a powerful accent within an all-black styling.

It uses Yohji Yamamoto’s signature material, wool gabardine. The most notable feature is the unique front closure constructed as if folding the fabric over itself. When worn open, the excess fabric creates a flowing and voluminous drape; when closed, it forms a structured and striking silhouette.

The dolman sleeves (wide, relaxed armhole construction) and generous shoulder width allow it to be worn comfortably over thicker inner layers, balancing a mode-driven atmosphere with practical functionality.

4. DEVOA / Soutien Collar Coat Cashmere / Cotton (BLACK) / CTJ-CSLH

A genuine material quality and timeless design that will remain useful even after entering the working world

For those who want to use their Coming-of-Age Ceremony as the moment to invest in a truly high-quality coat that can be worn for many years into adulthood, this is the ideal choice. The original double-faced fabric made from Nepalese cashmere on the outer layer and cotton on the inner layer features noticeable loft, lightness, a soft hand feel, and excellent heat retention that you can recognize at first touch.

The design is a classic soutien collar coat with subtle military-inspired details such as a chin strap at the collar. Its timeless design and beautifully elongated silhouette allow it to pair gracefully with any styling.

This is a true “lifetime piece” — a worthy investment that will continue to be worn and appreciated as you grow older.

5. JULIUS / COTTON MOLESKIN COAT (BLACK) / 917COM4

Balancing warmth and design to establish a strong personal identity

This coat is recommended for those who want to balance practical warmth with an avant-garde design sensibility, and establish a personal identity in their styling.

The high stand collar wraps the neck to retain warmth, while the way it opens and closes allows you to change the expression of the silhouette. The front zipper is covered with a fly-front style panel (where the zipper is concealed under fabric), blocking wind while keeping the look minimal and streamlined.

The matte expression unique to high-density cotton and the vertical stitchwork running through the coat amplify the sharply tense, modern atmosphere characteristic of JULIUS.

Five Carefully Selected Boots That Define the Overall Impression

The footwear is the most important element that determines the overall impression of the styling.
By choosing boots instead of general business shoes (oxfords or derbies), your Coming-of-Age Ceremony outfit immediately becomes more distinctive and substantial.

Here, we have carefully selected five pairs of boots that further elevate the setup styles introduced earlier.

1. Ann Demeulemeester / Heiko Laced Back Ankle Boots / CO02MA40

A boot that keeps the front refined, while expressing individuality from the back

This pair is perfect for those who do not want to stand out in a loud way on their Coming-of-Age day, yet still want to express a clear and confident sense of individuality. The front features a plain round toe, subtle and understated, making it easy to coordinate with elegant setups such as IRENISA or sulvam.

The true character of this boot lies in the back. The rear lace-up detail is a subtle design feature that only reveals itself when seen from behind or while walking.

The matte texture of the high-quality Italian calf leather brings sophistication to its unique design. This is a pair that allows refined self-expression suitable for such a formal day.

2. GUIDI / Back Zip Boots Single Sole Wide Model (Black) / 988X

For those who appreciate the real thing — boots that you “grow” as you wear them

For people who love fashion, simply *wearing GUIDI* carries a special meaning. This is the pair we recommend most to those who want to begin their Coming-of-Age with the mindset of starting to cultivate a pair of leather boots that will last a lifetime.

The Product Tumbled Dye (a technique where the shoe is dyed after being fully constructed) creates GUIDI’s unmistakable supple shine and natural depth of tone. Also, being made with a whole-cut construction (crafted from a single piece of leather), the boot gradually molds to the shape of your foot, producing beautiful creasing along the instep as it ages.

This “X-number” model is based on the standard last (988), but with a wider width. It resolves the common issue of “I always admired GUIDI, but the width didn’t fit my foot,” allowing both the iconic design and comfortable fit to coexist.

3. MAISON MARGIELA / Tabi Chelsea Boots (Black) / S57WU0150

A refined icon that balances tradition and innovation

The “Tabi” (split-toe) design from Maison Margiela is an iconic symbol of the brand’s philosophy. Wearing these boots is a way of expressing, in the most intellectual manner, the identity of “I have a different and individual perspective.”

What makes this pair particularly excellent is that it is based on the traditional Chelsea boot (a side-gore riding boot). This allows it to blend naturally into formal setup styling while still holding an avant-garde presence.

The stretch gussets on both sides make the boots extremely easy to put on and take off, while the single vertical stitch at the heel quietly conveys the brand’s conceptual approach. For those who want to honor tradition while still expressing themselves on their Coming-of-Age Day, this pair answers perfectly.

4. The Viridi-anne / KIDS LOVE GAITE Collaboration In Heel Boots / VI-KLG-001-09

A pair with a natural height-boosting effect and a story to tell

Coming-of-Age Day is a day where many photos will be taken. These boots feature a 4.5cm internal heel, which naturally enhances your proportions the moment you put them on, making your setup and outerwear silhouette appear the most balanced and beautiful.

Additionally, this is a collaboration with the shoe brand “KIDS LOVE GAITE,” and is a reissue of a 2008 model, giving it a meaningful backstory that you can share. The material used is Maremma leather from Italy—an exceptionally high-quality leather known for its refined gloss and fine, smooth grain, adding a sense of sophistication from the feet upward.

The back zip allows for easy on/off, and the Vibram sole ensures comfortable walking. This pair perfectly balances design, height-enhancing effect, and practicality.

5. JULIUS / COW SKIN BOOTS (BLACK) / 907FWM1

Boots that form a solid foundation, able to support voluminous bottoms

When wearing bottoms with strong volume—such as Yohji Yamamoto’s hakama-style pants or JULIUS’s own wide trousers—the overall balance collapses if the footwear is too delicate. These boots, with their bold, substantial sole design, firmly anchor such powerful silhouettes and stabilize the styling as a whole.

The design combines high-density cow leather with nylon fabric paneling, creating a textural contrast that adds depth to an all-black look. While visually impactful, the design remains highly versatile—not only completing JULIUS’s characteristic aesthetic, but also adapting seamlessly to a wide range of modern, mode-driven styles.

【Q&A】Let’s Resolve Your Concerns About What to Wear to the Coming-of-Age Ceremony

We have proposed a variety of styling options up to this point, but you may still be thinking, “Is it really okay not to wear a suit?”
Here, we will answer some of the most common questions we receive, based on our own experience and perspective.

Q. If I don’t wear a suit, won’t I stand out in a bad way at the ceremony?

A. It’s totally fine. Have confidence and stay true to the style you love.

As mentioned at the beginning, I (the author) also attended the ceremony in a black designer set-up, not a suit.

To be honest, on the way to the venue, I did feel a bit unsure — “Maybe I’ll look out of place…” But in reality, my friends said things like “That really suits you” or “That looks just like you.” And because no one else was dressed the same, I felt proud to express myself.

The key is to be aware of TPO (choosing clothing that suits the place and atmosphere). For example, something too casual like a T-shirt and denim is not appropriate. However, the set-ups and jacket styles introduced in this article carry enough formality and elegance to suit the occasion.

Your individual style does not “stand out awkwardly” — it stands out beautifully.
Rather than worrying how others see you, choose what you believe is cool and enjoy the day with confidence — that makes the best memory.

Q. I *want* to stand out, but how far is too far? I’m afraid of looking flashy in a bad way.

A. The key is to “stand out within a refined balance.” That’s what creates an elegant adult style.

We understand that concern very well. There is a difference between “standing out” and “standing out poorly.”
The line between the two is determined by overall balance.

For example: If you wear a highly-designed set-up like sulvam, keep the color unified in black for a sophisticated look. On the other hand, if you choose a simple and minimal set-up like IRENISA, add accent elements such as a colored knit or scarf for personality.
By keeping the whole outfit balanced, you avoid looking flashy in a negative way.

Choosing high-quality materials like wool gabardine or cashmere also plays a huge role. Clothing with visible quality naturally elevates your presence.

Q. After wearing the set-up to the ceremony, will I really be able to wear it again?

A. Absolutely. In fact, the set-up becomes most useful *after* the ceremony.

Unlike a standard suit, the biggest advantage of the set-ups we introduced is that the jacket and pants are designed to be worn independently as daily wear.

• 【How to wear the jacket alone】
  Try pairing the jacket with your own denim or cargo pants. Switching the inner layer to a T-shirt or hoodie instantly creates a stylish casual look.
• 【How to wear the pants alone】
  Slacks like those from IRENISA pair beautifully with sweatshirts or oversized knits, giving your outfit refinement. With Yohji Yamamoto hakama-style pants, they become the main feature on their own — just wear a simple cut-and-sew top in summer for a complete look.
• 【Wearing the set-up again】
  Of course, you can also wear the full set-up again. For example, for your university graduation ceremony, at a friend’s wedding after-party, or a nice dinner — moments when you want to look special.

Don’t think of it as “buying something just for the Coming-of-Age ceremony.” Think of it as “a piece that will become a main character in your wardrobe for years ahead.” Please enjoy wearing it for a long time.

Conclusion: Create Your Best Memory in an Outfit You Truly Want to Wear

In this article, we introduced five specific designer set-up styles — along with five coats and five boots to elevate those outfits — based on the idea that “there should be more freedom in what to wear to the Coming-of-Age Ceremony.”

The main character of the ceremony is no one else but you.

Rather than worrying too much about conventions or how others might see you, choose the outfit that you genuinely feel excited to wear — the one that feels true to you. And when you put it on, carry that feeling of anticipation and confidence with you, and make this once-in-a-lifetime day into an unforgettable memory.

Our role is to help shape what you love — and support you in creating your best memory.

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